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A cold March wind danced around the dead of night
in Dallas as the Doctor walked into the small
hospital room of Diana Blessing.
Still groggy from surgery, her husband David held
her hand as they braced themselves for the latest
news. That afternoon of March 10, 1991,
complications
had forced Diana, only 24 weeks pregnant, to
undergo an emergency cesarean to deliver the couple'
new daughter, Danae Lu Blessing. At 12 inches long
and
weighing only one pound and nine ounces, they already
knew she was perilously premature. Still, the
doctor's
soft words dropped like bombs.
"I don't think she's going to make it', he said, as
kindly as he could. "There's only a 10 percent
chance she will live through the night, and even
then,
if by some slim chance she does make it, her future
could be a very cruel one." Numb with disbelief,
David and Diana listened as the doctor described the
devastating problems Danae would likely face if she
survived. She would never walk, she would never talk,
she would probably be blind, and she would certainly
be prone to other catastrophic conditions from
cerebral palsy to complete mental retardation, and
on and on.
"No! No!" was all Diana could say. She and David,
with
their 5-year-old son Dustin, had long dreamed of the
day they would have a daughter to become a family of
four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was
slipping away.
Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto
life by the thinnest thread, Diana slipped in and out
of sleep, growing more and more determined that their
tiny daughter would live and live to be a healthy,
happy young girl. But David, fully awake and
listening
to additional dire details of their daughter's
chances
of ever leaving the hospital alive, much less
healthy,
knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable.
David walked in and said that we needed to talk
about
making funeral arrangements. Diana remembers 'I felt
so bad for him because he was doing everything trying
to include me in what was going on, but I just
wouldn't
listen, I couldn't listen." I said, "No, that is not
going to happen, no way! I don't care what the
doctors
say; Danae is not going to die!
One day she will be just fine, and she will be coming
home with us!"
As if willed to live by Diana's determination, Danae
clung to life hour after hour, with the help of every
medical machine and marvel her miniature body could
endure. But as those first days passed, a new agony
set in for David and Diana. Because Danae's
underdeveloped nervous system was essentially 'raw,'
the lightest kiss or caress only intensified her
discomfort, so they couldn't even cradle their tiny
baby girl against their chests to offer the strength
of their love. All they could do, Danae struggled
alone beneath the ultraviolet light in the tangle of
tubes and wires, was to pray that God would stay close
to their precious little girl. There was never a
moment when Danae suddenly grew stronger. But as the
weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight
here and an ounce of strength there. At last, when
Danae turned two months old, her parents were able to
hold her in their arms for the very first time.
And two months later though doctors continued to
gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving,
much less living any kind of normal life, were next
to
zero. Danae went home from the hospital, just as her
mother had predicted. Today, five years later,
Danae is a petite but feisty young girl with
glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest
for life.
She shows no signs, whatsoever, of any mental or
physical impairment. Simply, she is everything a
little girl can be and more, but that happy
ending is far from the end of her story.
One blistering afternoon in the summer of
1996 near her home in Irving, Texas, Danae was
sitting
in her mother's lap in the bleachers of a
local ballpark where her brother Dustin's
baseball team was practicing. As always, Danae was
chattering nonstop with her mother and several
other adults sitting nearby when she suddenly fell
silent.
Hugging her arms across her chest, Danae
asked, "Do you smell that?"
Smelling the air and detecting the approach of a
thunderstorm, Diana replied, "Yes, it smells like
rain."
Danae closed her eyes and again asked, "Do you smell
that?" Once again, her mother replied, "Yes, I think
we're about to get wet, it smells like rain."
Still caught in the moment, Danae shook
her head, patted her thin shoulders with her small
hands and loudly announced, "No, it
smells like Him. It smells like God when you lay your
head on His chest."
Tears blurred Diana's eyes as Danae then
happily hopped down to play with the other children.
Before the rains came, her daughter's words confirmed
what Diana and all the members of the extended
Blessing family had known, at least in their hearts,
all along. During those long days and nights of her
first two months of her life, when her nerves were
too
sensitive for them to touch her, God was holding
Danae
on His chest and it is His loving scent that she
remembers so well.
You now have 1 of 2 choices...you can either pass
this
on and let other people catch the chills like you
did,
or you can delete this and act like it didn't touch
your heart like it did mine. IT'S YOUR CALL!
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